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I was you. I found the way.

This is the story of how a paralyzed patient taught me what real healing actually means.

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2015 | Nigeria – The Successful Prisoner

I built a thriving multi-state physical-therapy company. Money, status, connections—everything the world says matters. I was at the top… and suffocating.

2016 | Nigeria – The Patient Who Changed Everything

A 22-year-old woman, gunshot injury, paralyzed from the neck down. I used every technique, prayed, cried, studied. Nothing worked. That’s when I realized I was treating branches while the root stayed sick.

2017 | Transition – The Deconstruction

Now I help corporate refugees, faith deconstructors, and transition navigators—because I’ve been all three.

2018-2020 | Canada – Starting Over

Zero credentials. Zero status. Worked in addiction recovery homes, harm-reduction, case management. Learned the truth I never saw in a clinic: healing doesn’t start with behavior. It starts with reconnection.

Today | Alberta – The Guide

Now I help corporate refugees, faith deconstructors, and transition navigators—because I’ve been all three.

Clinical Foundation

Bachelor’s in Medical Rehabilitation 5+ years as Physical Therapist Founded and ran multi-state PT company Treated hundreds of patients

Lived Experience

Addiction recovery specialist Harm reduction & case management Full faith deconstruction + reconstruction International transition: Nigeria → Canada

This is how I work.

I don’t treat symptoms. I address roots. I don’t modify behavior. I restore connection. I don’t offer programs—I walk the journey with you. — Tolu Owolabi, Reconnection Specialist

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The Castle Unit 345 2500 Castle Dr
Manhattan, NY

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+216 (0)40 3629 4753
hello@themenectar.com

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